Life , Business Non-Judgemental Me.

The moment I decided to be Non-judgemental , I realized the volume of judgements delivered by me all the time. I and everyone around me do it every minute,every day. Differentiating one thing from other is the major activity of our brain throughout the day.Opinonated Life has become a practice.This Human/Brand is better than other. This kind of job is more satisfying.This food is good and that is bad. Moment to moment, I dont like crowd.Moment you are totaly alone, ''I dont like to be lonely''. I like this song , I like that girl, I preffer  doing Business rather a Job.Moment you ender office on Monday someone asks ,"Hey, How was your weekend?" (We talk in Opinions). You reply ,"Great!" even thoughh you might have had a lousy weekend ,fight with your GF or something (You replied and gave a judgement). If you will observe yourself or your conversations with people around you , you will understand better.

Its required sometime and its harmless when its at appropriate place , however it becomes a deep rooted habbit. We start to do it everywhere , during tea breaks, In a friends gathering, to strike a conversation and every where.Society around you appreciate it. If you dont have opinion ,some treat you like a fool. Wise guys say ,"be decisive, this isde or that side".

Is it really inevitable? Does difference really exists? Is there only this way or that way? I dont think so.I disagree. TRUTH says to FALSE ,"I am another you". Bad says to Good,"I am another you". High says to Low,"I start where you end and you vanish where i menifest". There is no difference or rather a virtual difference. Just that we never observe. You can never make out where one starts and other one ends.

If you have ever observed a line drawn on a paper. Its a dots joined from one another. if you observe Circle , its nothing but numerous dots conected with lines. A line emerges from a dot and Circle from a line. Similarly , Cleanliness emerges from dirtyness. Bad emerges from good. We get scared of bad,dirt,false etc and tries to judge it a totaly different thing.As if its from a different planet.Result, problem remains a problem. Fear of bad never leaves us.

Almost everone in my genration says they cant do job and wants to start thiere own business. Irony is , hardly anyone does it.Talk to elders about it and they say it with a wisdom that Busness is one thing and job is another.Business hai kya , hai to ek cheez. Its nothing but another trait. it also requires effort, hounesty and mostly perseverance. Dont you practice these things in your job in one form or other, yes you do. I dont deny the challenges of business ,however can you deny the tolerance of a job? There will be difference and there should be a difference , however its not as big sa Grand Canon. Hounest , determined heart will do both things equaly good.

Bieng non-judgemental helps you use your intelect to observe thing with a 'open mind'.You can decide on every new things in absolute sence rather in a relative sence and miss out by bieng opinionated with it. It makes you more interesting person to talk with. It lightens your mind and trust me makes you Happier... full of life!

Its still a ongoing strugle for me and probably it will always be :)

Sempre Fi :)

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When life starts to rock!

Energy is spent in chasing to be something or someone and few spend to become no one. A never ending list of what I wana be. Ripped body like Brad Pitt....Volume of Hair Like Sharukh khan.... Determination like lance Armstrong.... Humor like Jim carry... Mind/IQ like Bill gates....Business Accumen like Warner Buffet.... Money like King of Brunae...and it never ends.

Why can't we get comfortable , with ouself? get comfortable with your recieting hairline , get comfortable with average built , get comfortable with things and people around you , get comfortabe that you are a lazy ass, get comfortable with your beauty.... just....GET COMFORTABLE :)

This doesn't mean you never fight. Fight only if your sole says it, trust your gutt feeling. never start a chase if other says that thing is beautifull and worth fighting for. If your sole gives voice for it do it , however still be comfortable with your PRESENT as your chase, your fight is still for the "FUTURE". Best way is love that FUTURE so much that you and FUTURE becomes one and the same.If that happens you feel happiness as you have achieved your goal emotionally and that makes you comfortable with yourself.You never bother about the worse in you as you are drifting toward it and you hardly makes an effort for it.Whenever it become tough, all it takes is to visualize and all your zeal bounces back.... your are jumping in your bed like a kid :)

Observe N...Get comfortable and thats when your life starts to rock! ... Be your own celebrity :)

Chao!

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Proposed a gud friend!

Getting crush over a beautifull girl if damn often and when she is good friend of yours, it becomes most probable.Whats new in it and whats wrong in it? ...right? So for the sake of not being a jerk, dont over react!.. particularly Girls :)

Hiding that feeling sucks big time.Friendship suffers and takes all positive vibes out of it.Accept it as we cant live without water or air. It may happen to anyone, may be to you to in some point of time. And be open to it, be open to your beauty. Other person can't help it....you are so fuckin beutifull.You Charm doesnt goes off his head. Its fine if you dont feel similarly.Reject the proposal with a love and respect. Help him out of that feeling, it goes off in some time and friendship bounces back.

Its horrible to over react like a jerk. Chill people, dont take yourself so seriously or atleast admire yourself that you are so beautifull. have fun with your beauty and embrace the lovers of your beauty...accept few and help others.....This will never lead to hidden feeling....and will lead to a lighter hearts....great place to be :)

Chill :)

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