The moment I decided to be Non-judgemental , I realized the volume of judgements delivered by me all the time. I and everyone around me do it every minute,every day. Differentiating one thing from other is the major activity of our brain throughout the day.Opinonated Life has become a practice.This Human/Brand is better than other. This kind of job is more satisfying.This food is good and that is bad. Moment to moment, I dont like crowd.Moment you are totaly alone, ''I dont like to be lonely''. I like this song , I like that girl, I preffer doing Business rather a Job.Moment you ender office on Monday someone asks ,"Hey, How was your weekend?" (We talk in Opinions). You reply ,"Great!" even thoughh you might have had a lousy weekend ,fight with your GF or something (You replied and gave a judgement). If you will observe yourself or your conversations with people around you , you will understand better.
Its required sometime and its harmless when its at appropriate place , however it becomes a deep rooted habbit. We start to do it everywhere , during tea breaks, In a friends gathering, to strike a conversation and every where.Society around you appreciate it. If you dont have opinion ,some treat you like a fool. Wise guys say ,"be decisive, this isde or that side".
Is it really inevitable? Does difference really exists? Is there only this way or that way? I dont think so.I disagree. TRUTH says to FALSE ,"I am another you". Bad says to Good,"I am another you". High says to Low,"I start where you end and you vanish where i menifest". There is no difference or rather a virtual difference. Just that we never observe. You can never make out where one starts and other one ends.
If you have ever observed a line drawn on a paper. Its a dots joined from one another. if you observe Circle , its nothing but numerous dots conected with lines. A line emerges from a dot and Circle from a line. Similarly , Cleanliness emerges from dirtyness. Bad emerges from good. We get scared of bad,dirt,false etc and tries to judge it a totaly different thing.As if its from a different planet.Result, problem remains a problem. Fear of bad never leaves us.
Almost everone in my genration says they cant do job and wants to start thiere own business. Irony is , hardly anyone does it.Talk to elders about it and they say it with a wisdom that Busness is one thing and job is another.Business hai kya , hai to ek cheez. Its nothing but another trait. it also requires effort, hounesty and mostly perseverance. Dont you practice these things in your job in one form or other, yes you do. I dont deny the challenges of business ,however can you deny the tolerance of a job? There will be difference and there should be a difference , however its not as big sa Grand Canon. Hounest , determined heart will do both things equaly good.
Bieng non-judgemental helps you use your intelect to observe thing with a 'open mind'.You can decide on every new things in absolute sence rather in a relative sence and miss out by bieng opinionated with it. It makes you more interesting person to talk with. It lightens your mind and trust me makes you Happier... full of life!
Its still a ongoing strugle for me and probably it will always be :)
Sempre Fi :)
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