Decoding Love :)

Love in logical sense is just getting used to one person , till an extent that all your instincts rushes towards him/her , loosing the ability to avail any other alternative. Its hidden meaning is Addiction , which is nothing but weakness.If its taken care and in limit , its a pleasure and beyond that its Pain!

You start to do everything with just one person  and it becomes your habbit. Brain closes its doors and windows to look for any other alternative. Every fun, misery or activity just revolves around this 1 person. You lead to loose your life by making this person your life. Every thought starts with this person and ends with this person. It shapes up into a weakness and finally addiction.

Once anything is your weakness or addiction you can imagine life in its absence. Moment this thing or person departs from your life , you loose the reason to continue to live. Life looses its lustre , you feel enervated. It feels like an unending void , all you have around is unending silence  and loneliness. We tend to go paranoid by this silence around us.

This state is actually not new , however it was just ignored due to presence of that person , rather constant presence of that person. If this happens with your first break-up, its fine. However, people land up in this emotional ‘cold-turkey’ one after the other.

This can be easily countered , if you act smart and with your intellect. Just avoid relying on any one person , activity or Job. Get smart , observe things and you will get sign when it starts to head in same direction and will lead to pain. Pain of Addiction!

Have more than 1 friends . 1 friend is always special , but just don't build every activity around her/him. Make some friends at work , make some with you common interest, just get open and friends will pour in. Dont be a Jerk, walk up to a guy or girl and talk. Can! your ego and dump it in grand Canyon.

Take up some activity , this helps when you don't have people around you. Music and Dance are one of the most common activities. Take up something Creative . It requires you to explore and takes your thought away from your Love or addiction . Even if you wanna love also , it will freshen you up and your love will not be stale , with time.

Get involved with some physical fitness activity.99% people in this world are passionate about their Body or food. These are organic passions of human being . Pick either of these , these grow with you .You Can feel it with your senses. Once you are into this cycle, its addictive too. In this You befriend yourself. Nothing better than that.

Life becomes really lighter and more fun this way. Yo feel like a King of your Heart, Mind  and Soul.

All you need to ask is.....Am I thinking around this Person all fucking Time ?...N smile! ... N Act!

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